Usually us Friday Girls like a great cocktail or glass of wine but let’s face it a well rounded woman can also choose and drink a great beer with the guys! Last Saturday, I had the pleasure of being one of the judges for the Sweetwater Brew Your Cask Off Cask Ale Festival.. Most of the beers were great…some not so great…but still a great way to spend a Saturday afternoon!! AND DRINK FREE BEER!!! Need I say more? Ladies next time your out drinking with your guy or your girlfriends order a Sweetwater…

October smiling because she is standing next to all that free beer!

October and Mark Owens, Rock100.5

October, Sweetwater founder Freddy Berisch and FGTV Producer, Ashia Sims

 

Recently Friday Girl TV had the pleasure of going to two great events this past weekend, R.A. Sushi’s all you eat sushi contest, Maki Madness and Sassy Successful, Women’s Empowerment Project, for a private shopping event and Book Club Meeting at Carol’s Daughter at Lenox Mall where we discussed, Secrets of a Six Figure Woman by Barbara Stanny. Both events were loads of fun and definitely great for a Friday Girl weekend out on the town!

Second Heat, Round 1 The Competition Heats Up!

Patrick Dogan (first place winner), Tyler Preston (fourth), Brian Gillard (third) and Lubin An (second)

We headed to the Sassy Successful event later that evening…

Saniyah Griffin, Carol's Daughter Store Manager

October with Sassy Successful Founders, Veronica and Tiffany

 

Sheri Riley, owner of Atlanta’s most premiere entertainment and marketing firm, GLUE, shares how she’s stayed in the business for 12 years while balancing work, family and the art of date night…

FG: What was the inspiration for launching GLUE 12 years ago?

Sheri: I always knew that I wanted to be an entrepreneur. so in college all of my business school electives were SBA/entrepreneur classes. Before I launched GLUE, my roles and responsibilities at each of my jobs were autonomous in nature and my first post college entertainment job at Trevel Productions (The management and production company owned by the late great Gerald Levert) was a position that I “created”. Also, during this time, was the “soft’ launch of my company under the name of “Careers R Unlimited”. I have always known I wanted to work with companies and individuals to build partnerships and assist them in achieving their very best. Also, because I’ve always known I wanted to be a business owner, as a employee, I worked for “small” companies which allowed me to not only learn my position but see, watch, and learn the inner workings on the business. After I resigned from LaFace Records, I knew it was time to launch my business, GLUE.

FG: Where does the name of your company, GLUE come from?

Sheri: Darrick Warfield, owner of Goldfinger c.s. (www.goldfingercs.com), who is the most creative person I know, gave me the name GLUE when we were working at LaFace and I shared the idea/concept of my company with him. One day he said: “You need to name it GLUE. Not GLUE Marketing, not GLUE Entertainment, just GLUE.” A short time after that, I was talking to a well trusted friend, and as I described my business to her, she kept saying these different descriptions of our services, but I could tell that she wasn’t fully grasping the concept. Finally I blurted out: “We are the GLUE!” and at that moment, I knew the name Darrick gave me was IT!!!

FG: What were some of the challenges you faced when getting your business of the ground?

Sheri: Personnel was and still continues to be one of the biggest challenges. In the beginning, we had plenty of business, clients, and new business opportunities, but had the constant challenge of identifying the best and most qualified professionals to join the GLUE team.

FG: How are the services GLUE provides different from some of the other boutique entertainment firms in Atlanta?

Sheri: GLUE’s strength is our relationships, resources, access, and intellectual capital. Also, our Brand is recognized for working at the highest level of excellence, while providing our clients with a complete service portfolio, along with attention to detail, a keen focus, and a broad vision. I don’t know of any other company in Atlanta that provides the unique blend of services that GLUE offers.

FG: A lot of people think the entertainment industry is a male dominated business but the truth is there are now a lot of women behind the scenes. Why do you think women making decisions in entertainment are not always brought to the forefront?

Sheri: I don’t think this perception is unique to the entertainment industry. I believe it’s pretty consistent with other industries (finance, technology, etc). Just like other industries, there are fewer women in the CEO or Chairman position but many Presidents and Vice Presidents with “greenlighting” power. From outside of the entertainment industry, it may appear to be a down play of women decision makers, but within the industry, that’s not the case. Women power brokers, decision makers, and influencers are not only prevalent but recognized and acknowledged, from managers of recording artists to CEOs of major movie studios.

FG: How did your work at LaFace Records prepare you for the running of your own business?

Sheri: I jokingly say that I received my PhD working at LaFace. My tenure at the Label was the launching pad for my success with GLUE. The knowledge, exposure, experience, and understanding of the entertainment industry and business I received while working there was invaluable. Even though LaFace and the stable of artists were international brands, the company consisted of a small number of employees. As the Sr. Director of Product Management, I was intimately involved and played an integral role in many aspects of the business of each artist and the Label. In addition, I still have the relationships that I cultivated while at the Label and they have been extremely instrumental in GLUE’s success. LaFace also prepared me to interact with company leaders across all industries with ease. LaFace housed the best executive talent in the industry and the majority of the individuals who worked there are still very successful in their respective ventures.

FG: What are some tips you can give readers that are contemplating leaving their job to start you’re their own business?

Sheri: Make sure your business is your passion and your passion is matched with an understanding of business. Just because you can bake GREAT cookies, doesn’t mean you can run and operate a successful bakery. 2. Have at least 12 months of money saved to cover your personal and business expenses. 3. Even if you don’t do a full business plan, do have a written PLAN. 4. Be flexible, persistent, and consistent. 5. If one of your reasons for leaving your job to become an entrepreneur is so you don’t have to “answer to a boss”, keep your job. As an entrepreneur you now have the responsibility of not reporting to a boss, but your are “responsible” to respond to the IRS, your clients, your employees, Dun & Bradstreet, etc. The point is, everyone reports to someone. Also, if you want to leave your job for “more freedom,” again, keep your job. You have a different type of freedom, but this freedom comes with an exponential amount of responsibility.

FG: What are some of the tips you have for business women who are struggling to keep their business thriving during the recession?

Sheri: During these tough times, budgets have been cut, departments have been closed, programs have been dissolved and there is limited work available for outside vendors or agencies, which has resulted in decreased revenues for small businesses. I would highly recommend the strategy of partnerships and bartering. Let’s say I am a publicist who needs a website built and a web developer needs PR for her company. This presents the perfect opportunity to barter and preserve resources. Strategic alliances are also key. With this same example, the PR firm and the Web Design Agency can partner and pitch business together. For some new business, they may be a joint venture and in other instances one firm may be the lead agency and/or the silent partner.

FG: How do you balance running your business and family?

Sheri: Mostly through prayer and faith. However, one of the first keys to a successful balance is asking for help. I am blessed to have a husband who is involved with my business and very active with our children. I am also blessed that my mother lives with us and helps with the chores around the house. One of the biggest challenges women have is the “super woman complex”. We believe we are SUPPOSE to do it all. Yes, we are capable of doing it all, but we don’t HAVE to do it all. As a single parent you don’t have a husband’s help or a mother in your city, but I am pretty sure you have good girlfriends, guy friends, community programs or even teenage daughters of your friends that would love to help if you asked. In addition to asking for help, you must create balance in your mind and thoughts. For people who are self employed, one of the biggest fallacies is this mindset that we have to work 24 hours a day. Even when my office was in my home, I separated in my mind, my office from my home. I got up in the morning, got dressed, and went to work. I just had a shorter commute than most. So the key to balance is creating the understanding that balance in your life comes from the parameters you set.

FG: Many people think that if you are a successful business woman that getting married is out of the question, because there is simply no time to date. How does a single girl go about accomplishing her goals and meeting the man of her dreams?

Sheri: GOD gives everyone the same 24 hours in a day, but how you choose to manage those 24 hours is up to you. A woman has to make a conscious decision that making time for herself and time to be available to date is important to her. Many women decide to stay busy and think that when they meet that man, they will make room for him in their lives. But they actually have to make room in their schedules and in their lives first. Also, you have to make time to do things other than go to work and interact in your work environment. Allow yourself the time to have a hobby. Spend time doing things that have absolutely NOTHING to do with your career or business. And lastly, be open to a man and/or experiences that are outside of your normal routine.

FG: What is a spiritual mantra or philosophy that you live by?

Sheri: Most consistently its Matthew 6:33 “seek first the kingdom of GOD and His righteousness and all these things will be added unto you”. But as a whole, my “philosophy” for life is constantly and consistently to pray and read the bible. I find direction, peace, guidance, confirmation, understanding and joy through prayer and from reading and studying the bible for every situation I am in, every answer I seek, all of the questions I have for my life.

FG: What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?

Sheri: Find what you love to do and you will never have to work – Charles Hugely (my Father)

FG: What would you tell your younger-self if you knew then what you know now?

Sheri: Have fun, enjoy the moment, maximize the opportunity, and connect with the people you are exposed to. You are exceptional at what you do. Do not be afraid. Be of good courage.

Finish this sentence….

FG: Women should stop complaining about______ and start doing _____________

Sheri: Women should stop complaining about bad or a shortage of men and start loving themselves enough to let their guard down, stop having sex with men that don’t really love them and aren’t vested in the relationship, and take their power back in every area of their lives.

For more information on Sheri Riley please contact Monica Coleman at Monica@M320Consulting.com to be added to her mailing list.

 

This week Friday Girl had the pleasure of going to Mingle & Massage at The Massage Spa on Northside Drive in Atlanta for a charity event held by I Am A Visual Statement T-Shirt line, owned by entrepreneur and multi-media artist, Markesia Akinbami. The proceeds from the line of colorful graphic tees are donated to different non-profit organizations that benefit women and children with the proceeds from this month going to the Women for Women and Georgia Center for Child Advocacy the world! organizations. Check the pics below and find out how how your visual statement can help change

October Rose & Markesia Akinbami, Founder & Creator IAAVS

Markesia Akinbami (IAAVS), Janelle Langford (Urban Suite) and Mattie James (Mattieology.com)

I AM A Visual Statement T-Shirts

October & Mattie James of Mattieology.com

 

Check out Brittany Bosco now known as BOSCO who now lives in Atlanta but is currently at the SXSW Entertainment and Music Conference in Austin, TX taking it by storm! Look below for her beautiful video for her songs, “Blues for Blue” and “Black and White“…enjoy!

 

Zohra Sarwari is a wife, a mother, a business woman, a motivational speaker and the author of 7 books including the forthcoming, How to Raise A Successful Kidpreneuer…whew! Besides all of these accomplishments Zohra is also a Muslim woman living in America changing your ideas about life and Islam one idea at a time.

FG: How did you get your start?

Zohra:I decided to have career changes November 2006. I had done much counseling and loved helping people, so I thought coaching would be great for me, and I wanted to write books. After we moved to Indiana from California, I also decided that I wanted to home school my 3 kids, write, coach and speak. It was a career that I wanted to fit in my life around my family, not the other way around.

FG: What was your biggest challenge in starting your own business?

Zohra: The biggest challenge was having enough funding for when I started. We all know it takes money to make money. So I would save every penny that I could and invest it in my business. The next challenge was to find the right team, and All Praise is to God for helping me with that as well.

FG: How do you balance being a wife, mother and business woman?

Zohra: Time Management would be my answer to that. Once we have developed a system to manage our time, instead of our time managing us, then we can be so much more productive. This is truly how I balance it all. Of course my days are not perfect, but I get a lot more done having managed my time.

FG: What is a spiritual mantra or philosophy that you live by?

Zohra:I live by the Muslim faith which always tells us to say “InshAllaah”. If something is meant to be it will happen only by the will of God, and if something doesn’t happen it is also by the will of God. So never take heed in the outcome. Do your best, and let the Creator take care of the rest. The 2nd philosophy that I live by is that we are taught that no matter what happens, good things, or bad, always say “Alhamdullilah”, which means all praise is to God. If a good thing happens to us it is by the will of God, and we should be thankful, and if a test is given to us, a calamity befalls on us, it is also by the will of God, and we need to be patient for that is a test from the Creator. So in either situation we say, “All Praise is to God”.

FG: What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?

Zohra: “That successful people do what unsuccessful people will not do.” That to have success we must sacrifice for it, work hard, and enrich lives.

FG: What would you tell your younger-self if you knew then what you know now?

Zohra: I would tell my younger self, that I should look for great mentors, and not be afraid of the unknown, or to change for the better.

FG: What are some common misconceptions people have about Muslim women in business?

Zohra: Some misconceptions that I face is that as a Muslim Woman is that I am not allowed to work, or that I am oppressed, because I choose to dress as a Muslim Woman, which is not true at all. I have to always clarify that what they see on TV is not the correct image of Islam, unfortunately the media looks for the worst side of a community, and then picks that up and prints it, and discusses it. The world watching is thinking that this is a good source of information and believes what they see and hear. My comeback response to the misconceptions is that every group has been in the media at one time of their lives, and they had to fight for justice and equality. The Native Indians went through it, The Black Americans have gone through it, Women have gone through this, The Japanese went through this after Pearl Harbor, and now it is the Muslims turn…Unless we change from being ignorant, we will continue on this pattern of ignorance, and the only ones we hurt are truly ourselves.

FG: How have other Muslim women and your family reacted to your career choice?

Zohra: They respect it. They wish they too could work from home. They look up to me to help them and surcharge them to achieve their destiny. My family is very supportive and also respects my decision.

Finish this sentence….

Women should stop complaining about______ and start doing _____________

Zohra: Women should stop complaining about their past and start doing something to achieve their future.

For more information on Zohra’s books, coaching services and speaking topics please visit www.ZohraSarwari.com or www.MuslimWomanSpeaker.com

 

Friday girls love to sip swanky cocktail drinks in fabulous locales with our best girlfriends, significant others or arm candy but every once in a while we like to sit back with a good book, a great movie or a delightful piece of music while sipping delicious red wine out of long stemmed wine glasses and get all deep in thought..lol. Should you find your self in one of these moods or just love the taste of wine, take a look at two great red wines under $10! Enjoy!

Alto Almanzora Este, 2006 $8.99

Alto Almanzora Este, 2006
With hints of blueberry, plum, fruitcake, and chocolate this six-grape blend from Spain promises rich full flavor. ($8.99; www.garnetwine.com)

Penfolds Koonunga Hill, 2007 $7.97

Penfolds Koonunga Hill, 2007
Check out this Australian mix of Shiraz and Cabernet Sauvignon, pair it with your favorite hearty soup, or beef dish. ($7.97; www.crownwineandspirits.com)

Source: www.delish.com

 

Friday Girl recently had the pleasure of going to the F.A.M.E. Public Relations 101 workshop held by Nicole Garner of The Garner Circle last Saturday at the Perimeter Place Towers. It was a great workshop for anyone looking to break into PR or just looking to improve on their current PR skills to promote their business. Attendees got to hear from the some of the best and the brightest in Atlanta media about how to best market themselves and their clients. The speakers and panelists read like a who who’s of Atlanta media and included Isoul Harris, Editor 944 Magazine, and contributor for People Magazine/AOL, Kimberly Walker, fashion writer and contributor for BET.com, Whatswear.com, Honey Magazine, Nina Brown, radio and television producer for V103 and CW Atlanta, Janee Bolden - Bossip.com/contributor for Vibe.com, Gyant, blogger and webshow host for GyantUnplugged.com/GUTV, Yvette Castlin – Senior National Editor Rolling Out Magazine, I’na Saulsbury of The Starfire Group and Saptosa Foster of 135th Street Agency and more! Check the pics below…

Margaret Kargbo (National Black Arts Festival), Saptosa Foster (135th Street Agency), October Rose

October & Nicole Garner (The Garner Circle)

Isoul Harris (944 Magazine) & October

October & I’na Saulsbery (The Starfire Group)

Kimberly Walker, Fashion Writer/Blogger for BET.com, Whatswear.com, Honey Magazine

 

ALL HAIL THE SHOE QUEEN!!! Okay so almost every Friday Girl you know is in love with bags, clothes, accessories and of course SHOES!!! So what better way to salute the MANY shoe queens in the world then with their own weekly coronation ceremony? I am getting us started with a few of my absolute favorite stylish shoes but next up is you! Send us pics of your favorite pair of shoes and next week’s SHOE QUEEN might be you! Take a look at a few of the shoes that make my feet happy…

Leather "Shooties" from Chinese Laundry! They retailed for $119.00 but I scooped 'em for $40 at Nordstrom's Rack while in Chicago...gotta love that!

Tuff Uber Modern Rocker Leather Booties from H&M...only 50 bucks! What a steal and you can wear them all year round!

 

My best friend, Slick & Rose singing partner and all around partner in crime, Nikki Slick signed us up for some cooking classes at Williams Sonoma so we could strengthen our diva skills and bonding rituals. We were both bummed at first, to find that this “class” was more like a “cooking demonstration” and less like a class because you actually watch while someone else does the cooking but the upside is you get to eat! So of course we stuck around because today’s fare was a Leek and Gruyere (its a type of cheese) Souffle and a Chocolate Souffle Cakes. We are vegetarians who love to eat so this was a treat! Jake, our class instructor, was so sweet and the food was DELICIOUS! Next time you’re in Lenox Mall or in your neck of the woods, check out Williams Sonoma, and find out what classes they offer because you really do learn a lot, the classes are FREE, the food is great and you get to eat! Need I say more?

Jake, our instructor, giving us a taste of the Chocolate Molten Cake

Leek & Gruyere Souffle...yum!

Me looking attentive and trying not to notice that Nikki is taking my picture..lol

Ms. Slick herself enjoying our free food!

The Friday Girl and our instructor Jake..He was so sweet and an excelelnt chef! I have to learn to stop doing that cheesy grin...lol

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