FGTV recently had the pleasure of hanging out and being fabulous at the Michael Stars store grand opening in Phipps Plaza! It had all the usual makings of a fab fashion shin dig- great clothes (check out the easy going gray jersey dress, the colored tights and the gold dog tag necklaces) champagne, great hors devours, delectable chocolate desserts and sounds by one of the hottest Djs in the ATL, DJ LV.

We all had silver spoons in our mouths...with yummy chocolate and peanut butter!

October and DJ LV

Michael Stars dresses in the same style of his line-easy, breezy and fabulous!

The only thing that could make this night any better was being able to meet and talk with company founder, designer, Michael Stars…and you know we did!

He told such great stories!

Here’s the scoop:

Michael Stars on where he grew up:

“I was born in South Africa and while I  love my country but I grew up in a time that was about division and separating people. I didn’t like that. I am about equality.”

Micheal Stars on why his clothes give effortless style and are easy to wear:

“I like clothes where you can get dressed effortlessly and I also get a lot of ideas by listening to my girls (meaning his staff and his wife) they tell me how they like to dress and what women are looking for in clothes and I listen.”

Micheal Stars on a woman’s style:

“I never look at a woman and say ‘Oh she looks stylish.’ I look at at a women say ‘Oh she looks cool’ but I cant explain what cool is but you know what I mean. You know what looks cool when you see it.”

Micheal Stars on why is brand is so successful:

“I don’t really know why we are so successful. I never really planned for any of this to happened. I just started doing something I loved and it grew into this. I would have to say also that I have a great staff  and they help a lot. But also maybe because we spend a lot of time giving back. I’ve never known a company who spent as much time [on development] as we do giving back [to the community] “

 

Surviving the Holidays if You’re Single

By: Ashia Sims

It is officially October, which means the holidays are right around the corner. If you’re single or away from your family, the holidays can be hard. I know it may seem easier to just put your head down and try to soldier through it, but I have some other options you may want to consider.

Don’t wait until the day before Thanksgiving to try to figure out what you plan on doing. Start thinking about it now so you have time to research and set something up. You have more options than you think.

1. Volunteer

Many community service organizations need more help during the holidays. Holidays are a great time to give back to someone less fortunate than you. Plus, there are often other people in a similar situation to yours doing the same thing. It’s a great way to connect with people you may not normally run into during your day to day routine. If you aren’t sure where to go, there are many websites that list the different volunteer opportunities all over the country. www.volunteermatch.org or www.serve.gov are two great places to start your search.

 2. Have a Party!

If you’re going to be alone over the holidays, there are probably other people in the same boat. You could organize a gathering where everyone comes together for dinner. Since you have time to plan, you could send out emails or a notice on facebook and see who would be interested in participating. Nothing takes your mind off of things like planning an event.

 3. Take a Vacation

People tend to be friendlier when they’re on vacation than any other time and since the holidays are during the off season for many places, you can find great travel deals. Visit an all inclusive resort on a tropical island. Use the time to decompress from the year that has just passed. Then when you come back, you’re refreshed and ready to tackle the new year!

So if you know you will be alone over the holidays, don’t let them sneak up on you and end up spending the time by yourself wishing you had somewhere to be. You don’t have to do it. There is ample time to ensure that your holiday season is a memorable one.

Ashia Sims, is a writer, producer and Executive Producer for Friday Girl TV. She enjoys business, traveling and teaching women about fashion on her blog, www.cluelessfashionista.com

 

Heather Claus, Owner 365 Days of Style

Heather Claus, is a style guru who has made a living off the internet teaching women about their personal style, since 1995, on her site 365 Days of Style. The site is fun, interactive and a great place to learn about your own sense of style! Read below to find about this week’s Shoe Queen!

FG: Who designed your shoes and where did you buy them?

HC: I purchased these Oh Deer! stilettos at a local shop know for it’s funky style, Edge of Urge (http://www.edgeofurge.com/).

FG: Is there a story behind why you purchased them?

HC: When I was a teenager, there was a pricey boutique in downtown Ames, Iowa that carried a cork briefcase that enthralled me. There was just something about the look and feel of cork that I couldn’t resist. Unfortunately, at $1,350, it was out of my price range, not to mention that I had no need for a briefcase at 15. *grins* As soon as I saw these shoes, they took me back to that time, and I knew that I had to have them. I still don’t have the briefcase, but I suspect it would now pale in comparison – since it didn’t have black patent leather trim! *smiles*

Stiletto Madlibs..
Finish these sentences with your own phrase…

FG: A good pair of stilettos makes you______________
HC:
feel powerful. I figure if I can master the walk in a pair of stillettos, I can do anything. *smiles*

FG: If we could walk a mile in your shoes_________________
HC:
you’d probably think I was crazy! Not only are these shoes NOT meant for walking a mile (although I’ve done it, for sure), I usually take some obscure path through life that only I can see. Luckliy, most of my friends trust me! *smiles*

FG: Stilettos are like_____________ everyone _______________
HC:
lingerie that everyone can see! *grins*

 

The Delicious Pumpkin Margarita

Toast on these “spooky” Halloween cocktails at your costume party this weekend!

 

Pumpkin Margarita

2 oz Partida Reposado Tequila

1 oz Fresh lime juice

Splash of pumpkin puree

Sesame seeds

Lime wedge

~Rim a cocktail glass with lime juice and sesame seeds. Mix ingredients in a
shaker with ice and shake well. Strain into cocktail glass. Garnish with a
lime wedge.

Dark Night:

2 oz Tequila Partida Blanco

1 oz Kahlua

~Pour Partida Tequila into an old fashioned glass with ice cubes and add the
Kahlua.

El Diablo:

3 oz Mionetto Brut Prosecco

1/2 oz Orange liqueur

2 oz Cranberry juice

Orange peel for garnish (Devil’s horns)

~Combine Orange liqueur and Cranberry juice in a flute and top with Prosecco

 

Lynn Chen, Founder of The Actor's Diet

Lynn Chen is an actress who started a food blog called “The Actor’s Diet,” about what actors eat to stay looking camera ready! With a focus on healthy living and positive body image, the blog explores Lynn’s daily adventures as an actor, and how she deals day-by-day overcoming a lifelong eating disorder.

FG: Why did you feel it was important to start TheActorsDiet.com?
LC:
I began blogging because I wanted to hold myself accountable when it came to binge eating and anorexia. I figured if I channeled my obsessive mind about food in a public forum, there would be no hiding. I certainly hoped that I would be successful and inspire others, but when I initially began I had no idea what was going to happen. I felt it was important to show that if somebody whose career depended on how they looked could come to terms with the truth – that size/weight/outer beauty isn’t important- be honest with herself, fall down and make mistakes, and still persevere, then maybe that would inspire/help someone who was struggling with food as well.

FG: What kind of foods can you eat following TheActorsDiet.com?
LC: Well, I have to make it clear that by “diet” I don’t mean a set of rules about what you can or cannot eat. My definition is what I choose to eat on a daily basis, and that changes constantly! For the most part, I stick to whole foods – organic/local and hormone-free if I can get them – with real ingredients. But that’s very difficult to do (and I’m a total foodie and enjoy everything from gourmet to hole-in-the-wall places) so I try to balance out the times when I’m eating something very heavy or artificial with days of fresh, home-cooked meals. Most of the products I feature on the site are sent to me for free by companies, and I try to sample the ones that are minimally processed and naturally sweetened whenever I can.

FG: How do you go about planning what restaurants you are going to feature on the site?
LC: I read a lot of food blogs and restaurant reviews so I always hear about places. I’m also scoping out vegetarian places, since my husband is one. Right now I’m on a quest to find “The Best Vegetarian Sandwich in Los Angeles” so I enlisted help from chowhound and yelp readers, compiled a list, and am happily checking places off!

FG: How do you come up with your recipes?
LC:
I read a lot of cookbooks, health food blogs, and watch A LOT of cooking shows. All of these techniques/ideas seep into my brain and I like to just make stuff up, depending on what’s available and what I’m craving.

FG: What are some of the lessons you have learned about starting your own food blog?
LC:
There’s a wonderful community of bloggers out there – just by visiting each others sites and commenting, I’ve made terrific friends, which was an unexpected bonus.

FG: What tips would you give to people who are interested in developing a healthier diet?
LC:
Everyone’s body is different and experiences foods differently, so it’s important not to compare – what works for me may not work for someone else. For me, personally, it’s not about taking away anything from my diet, but adding more nutrients. When I add the vitamins and minerals from produce, I naturally crave less sugar and fat. Not that there’s anything wrong with sugar and fat – I don’t deprive myself of that, ever! I just don’t make those things the basis of my meals every single day.

FG: How do you balance your blog and your acting career?
LC:
There’s actually a lot of free time – especially on set, waiting around for shots to set up – so it’s not difficult. If I’m especially busy, I will just do a “leaner” post – mostly pictures, fewer words. Takes about 5-10 minutes, which I always have!

FG: How many of your business decisions are based on know how vs. your intuition?
LC:
Seriously, I don’t know anything. It’s all about weighing my options and following my gut.

FG: What do you consider to be some of the major highlights of your career thus far?
LC:
Going to film festivals like Sundance and Toronto were definitely surreal moments that I savored and am grateful to have had the experience. I’m very proud to be an active part of the communities I’m involved in – both the Asian American Entertainment industry, and the health food blogging one.

FG: What is a spiritual mantra or philosophy that you live by?
LC:
Don’t compare yourself to others – and that includes previous versions of yourself. Just deal with what’s in front of you right now and don’t worry about what’s happened before, or what may or may not occur.

FG: What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
LC:
I like Julia Child’s quote “Life itself is the proper binge.” That pretty much sums up my entire eating disorder recovery, and is pretty inspiring to me, considering the woman she was, and everything she embodied.

FG: What would you tell your younger-self if you knew then what you know now?
LC:
Don’t care so much about what others think; nobody knows the answers to life – so listen to yourself.

Finish this sentence….
FG: Women should stop complaining about______ and start doing _____________
LC: Women should stop complaining about what they don’t have and start doing things to make them feel appreciative, healthy, whole, and alive.

FG: If your life came with a soundtrack, what would be the top three songs (and please indicate the singer or band)
LC:
“Summer Highland Falls” by Billy Joel, “My Baby Just Cares for Me” by Nina Simone and “32 Flavors” by Ani di Franco.

FG: What project(s) do you have coming up?
LC:
I just finished shooting a movie called “Surrogate Valentine” which should be doing the film festival circuit next year. In the meantime, I have 4 indie films releasing – 1 on-demand (“White on Rice”) 2 on DVD (“Why Am I Doing This?” and “X’s and O’s”) and 1 in theaters (“The People I’ve Slept With”).

Visit my website, www.lynnchen.com for links to my blog, my facebook/twitter, and all my contact information.

 

Latham Thomas, Owner Tender Shoots Wellness

Born and raised in California, Latham Thomas is a graduate of both Columbia University, where she earned a degree in Visual arts and Environmental science, and the Institute for Integrative Nutrition. She is a certified holistic health counselor, who mixes her passions of plant physiology, botany, holistic nutrition, fitness, yoga, and green cuisine into a lifestyle program that supports the various needs of her clients. Latham has developed partnerships with Vogue Magazine, Destination Maternity, Jurlique, and Euphoria Spa to produce events for expectant and new moms. On top of all that her company, Tender Shoots Wellness, founded in 2006, is a boutique holistic wellness practice striving to enrich the lives of women during their childbearing years by empowering them through nutrition awareness, yoga, green culinary arts and plant medicine. Embracing nature and promoting sustainability and green living! All Hail the Shoe Queen!

 FG: Who is the designer of your stilettos and where did you purchase them?

LT: Christian Louboutin, purchased at Saks 5th Ave in NYC

FG: Is there a story behind why you purchased them?

LT: Well, I like any flashy shoe. This one caught my eye when I stepped out of the elevator on the 8th floor at Saks. I had just got a pair of Tory Burch flats and then my eyes caught these and I made the quick decision to just get them.

Stiletto Madlibs..

Finish these sentences with your own phrase…

  

 

Latham's Louboutins

FG: A good pair of stilettos makes you feel

LT: sleek and sexy

FG: If we could walk a mile in your shoes

LT: you’d have calves like Serena Williams- I strut stiletto style day and night.

FG: FIERCE Stilettos are like ___everyone____________

LT: designer puppies everyone stops you in the street to find out where you got them!

 

Christian Loubotoin's "Marlena" The Sexiest Shoe of the Year

Christian Louboutin’s “Maralena,” which was just named the sexiest shoe of the year by Saks Fifth Avenue and Footwear News teamd up for a “Sexy Shoes” contest. The contestants included 22 pairs of Jimmy Choos, Brian Atwoods, Manolo Blahniks and more. Over 8,000 shoppers cast their votes and the winner was these five-inch, Swarovski-encrusted slingback Louboutins. Retailing at $2,445 sexy comes a big price! So what do you think? Are these the sexiest shoes of the year?

 

Skillet Rosemary Chicken
by Nikki Slick

Ingredients
3/4 pound small red-skinned potatoes, halved
Kosher salt
2 sprigs fresh rosemary, plus 1 tablespoon leaves
1 clove garlic, smashed
Pinch of red pepper flakes
Juice of 2 lemons (squeezed halves reserved)
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
4 skin-on, bone-in chicken breasts
10 ounces mushrooms, halved
Directions
Preheat the oven to 450. Cover potatoes
with cold water in a saucepan with salt. Bring to a boil over medium-high and cook until tender,
about 8 minutes; drain and set aside.

Pile the rosemary leaves, garlic, 2 teaspoons salt and the red pepper flakes on a cutting board, then mince
and mash into a paste using a large knife. Transfer paste to a bowl. Stir in juice of 1 lemon and the
olive oil. Add the chicken and turn to coat.

Heat a large cast-iron skillet over medium-high. Add the chicken, skin-side down, cover and cook until
the skin browns, about 5 minutes. Turn the chicken add the mushrooms potatoes to the skillet and drizzle
with the juice of the remaining lemon. Transfer to oven and roast,
uncovered, 20 to 25 minutes. Enjoy!

Adapted from Food Network

Nikki Slick is a singer, songwriter and one half of the band Slick & Rose as well as an art enthusiast with an ultra hip blog called www.slickwithakiss.com

 
 

Dafna Michaelson, Founder & President of 50 in 52 Journey

Dafna Michaelson is the founder, president and JourneyWoman for the 50 in 52 Journey, a project for which she traveled across America to all 50 states and Washington DC spanning the 52 weeks of 2009 to find America’s problem solvers and idea generators. Featured on NPR, CBS Sunday Morning and CNN, Michaelson has been sharing the stories of ordinary people doing extraordinary things for their communities throughout the country with the goal of inspiring others to action.

FG: How did the 50 in 52 journey begin?
DM: In 2009 I set out to travel to all 50 states in search of sharing the stories of people all over our country who were helping to solve community problems or were otherwise working to build community. I wanted to be an outlet to be part of the process of changing the mirror we use that reflects who we are as a society.

FG: What kind of preparation went into the planning of this trip?
DM: From the moment I quit my job I spent every waking breath trying to make connections in all 50 states, spread the word, find money, make a schedule. I had basically 5 months from the birth of the idea to my first trip. Not a lot of time! I got so desperate at one point trying to find people to interview in Delaware that while sitting in traffic on a rainy day I noticed a car with Delaware plates and actually jumped out of my car and knocked on their window asking them if they knew any community problem solvers in Delaware. It was hilarious!

FG: What are some of the lessons you learned on this journey?
DM:
I learned much about community and what it takes to step up and solve a problem. I learned what it means to be truly strong in your beliefs and put yourself out to lose the faith of friends and family while making life better for those around you. I learned much about my own prejudices that I did not think existed and I learned how I too can be strong while facing some of the toughest challenges of my life. Most of all I learned that my role is to help people with the knowledge I have amassed and to be the one that is the cheering section when no one else believes your idea is a good one!

FG: What tips would you give to people who are interested in becoming active in their community?
DM:
Becoming active in your community, or solving community problems as I like to say, does not mean you have to be the ringleader or the sole body on an effort. When I speak to groups I ask them to think about the things they complain about in their community. I ask them to look critically at that list and tell me if there is not one thing on that list that they could tackle. I ask will you Raise Your Hand© and say about one thing “I’ve got that one!” Then bring a group of friends together and solve that problem for your community. At the heart of it all you have to be working on something you care about and that will impact you or the people around you. The reward is a stronger community for all.

FG: How do you balance family and the work life?
DM:
This a response to that very question from my blog: Today I was asked to describe balance. Balance? Me? I was really quite amused and answered as follows: “Balance…hmmmm…balance is the perfect mix of morning snuggles with my children before camp/school, loving caresses from my boyfriend as he runs me to the airport…enjoying stimulating conversation on the airplane…meeting incredible people in each state I visit…sleeping on the airplane ride home…enjoying the I missed you kiss from my boyfriend when he picks me up from the airport, the giggles and hugs when I pick up the kids from camp…enjoying a weekend of family fun and starting all over again the next Wednesday. Balance=Love, Inspiration, fun, more love (sleep not required).”
I really thought I was a funny person to ask that question of. When I relayed the question and my (I thought) quite humorous answer to my boyfriend he said, “of course you’re the right person to answer that, look at what you’ve accomplished.” He pointed to the fact that we’ve created this Journey in the best way possible to least impact the children. I only travel on the days the kids are with their dad. I come home every week. I work while the kids are in camp/school. When the kids are home we play games, go to the playground, have play dates, cook dinner, laugh – a lot. Balance. As I meet people in each state doing incredible things to build community they are often doing so while holding full time jobs like Dr. Mehari in Kentucky and Debbie in Washington. Often they have started two and three organizations like Linda in Maryland and the ladies of the Catholic Action Center in Kentucky. Others have made their lives work of their passions like Michael in Florida and Michael in California. All of the people I have met are juggling so many balls that many times I’ve asked the question, How do you do it all? Almost to the person they have said that they would not have it any other way. For them balance means living life with love for others and following through on that love in the fullest way they know how. When you love your family you will do everything in your power to protect and provide for them. When you love your community you will do the same. Balance is that ability to fill your life with equal parts love of self, love of family, love of community and choosing your work through that lens. The people whom I have been so fortunate to meet do that without thinking. I have to think about it, for certain, but truly I’m working my way there. I even manage a few minutes of precious alone time with my boyfriend every now and then! Balance.
 

FG: How many of your business decisions are based on know how vs. your intuition?
DM:
Intuition definitely plays a big part in decision making, the trick is balancing it with the know how. I studied for an MBA so that I would be able to follow my gut and put business acumen behind my drive. I have been so fortunate in my career that my path has led me to so many unique opportunities and each experience has helped me grow into the business woman and social entrepreneur that I have become.

FG: What do you consider to be some of the major highlights of your career thus far?
DM:
I recently did an exercise with my resume. I needed to submit a resume for a position as a guest lecturer for an entrepreneurship class. I went to update it and was so bored by the traditional resume that I blew it up and created a resume graphic utilizing the major highlights of my career so that I could follow the path and see what went into making up the whole of me, from a business perspective:

FG: What is a spiritual mantra or philosophy that you live by?
DM:
I will not complain about a problem unless I am willing to work on the solution AND It takes a little crazy to make a difference! These are my two basic foundational philosophies although I use mantra and prayer every day in different ways depending on what I am facing at the moment and from where I need to derive strength.

FG: What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
DM: My mother told me from the time I was a very young child: You can be anything you want to be AND Be true to yourself and your beliefs and you can’t go wrong.

FG: What would you tell your younger-self if you knew then what you know now?
DM:
Follow your instincts, listen to your mind and to your gut, remember to take care of yourself too.

FG: Finish this sentence….Women should stop complaining about _____________ and_______________.
DM:
Women should stop complaining about_anything_____ and start doing ___something to solve the problem they would like to complain about.__________

FG: If your life came with a soundtrack, what would be the top three songs (and please indicate the singer or band):
DM:
If you believe by Julie Geller, Defying Gravity from Wicked, We Shall Be Free by Garth Brooks

FG: What project(s) do you have coming up?
DM:
The first Journey Institute summit and roundtables will be held November 11th and 14th 2010. The focus will be Youth Leadership in Community Problem Solving, also a series for Rocky Mountain PBS highlighting social entrepreneurs in Colorado to launch online October 2010. We are also launching curriculum based on the journey for classrooms and individuals aged 7 – 107 to learn what it means to be community problem solvers. This will launch by September 2010 on the Random Acts of Kindness website. The Raise Your Hand© workshop, first held as a follow up to my presentation at TedxDeverED, to help groups and individuals take the next step in community problem solving will hit the road in August 2010. I am also working on completing the book about the 50 in 52 Journey for publication late 2010/early 2011.

For more information on Dafna Michaelson and the 50 in 52 journey please visit www.dafnam.com.

 

Recently, Atlanta media and tastemakers were invited to check out the latest shoe to be released by Converse, the Star Player Evo. Classic and clean, the shoe definitely fits the Converse style. It will retail for $89 and be available in Atlanta in November at Foot Locker and Champs Sports. Here are some great pictures of the shoe to whet your appetite plus a really cool video featuring Julius “Dr. J” Erving, Jim Jones, Carlos Arroyo, Shammgod, Luam Keflezgy, Rune Glifberg, Kenny Anderson and a lot of other cool people. The music playing on the video is “Hello Operator” by The White Stripes.

For more information about the Converse Star Player Evo, visit www.converse.com.

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