by Ashia Sims
While relationships can be challenging, it often takes just as much work to get into one as it does to keep one going. As women, we are naturally blessed with certain attributes that help us when we want to let the guy we like know, our feminine graces.
Flirting is a great, subtle way to use your feminine graces to pay special attention to your favorite guy. I’m sure you know a woman who is a natural flirt. She can bat her eyes and flash a grin and the guys all seem to melt. Here are some tips that you can use to step up your flirting ability.
- Turn a hand shake into a hug. When you meet that cutie and he extends his hand, lean in and give him a hug. It’s forward but can be effective in showing your interest.
- Be a little touchy feely. When you’re having a conversation, lean in close and touch his arm or leg, especially if he says something funny.
- Use your best assets. If you have nice eyes, bat those eyelashes. If you have a great smile, direct it towards him often. If you have nice hair, play with it or flip it when you’re talking to him.
The most important two things to keep in mind when you want to turn up the charm; be genuine and selective. If you aren’t genuinely interested in someone, your flirting will reflect that. Also, if you flirt with every guy you encounter, it will be hard for that special guy to take you seriously or trust you. Save your honey for when it counts!